A Bug's Life....

So what if she got married today! So what if after 20 years of telephone communication they finally met again and got married? Do I care or should I even bother in put a feeling about it? Interesting isn't it? They first saw each other when I was 6 years old. Then he went to the states to work or I think to continue his education there and became a nurse. He then worked hard and was able to buy a house and lot, a car and was able to get his family to the states. She stayed here and worked her way up to position.
I wonder about a relationship like that. I have a friend who was in that and it never lasted. The other person was not able to take the situation. I was also in that situation. He left and went to Manila and was looking for a job there and was expecting me to still be loyal to him. But then for me, something like that is very hard. It is just like the song "making love out of nothing at all". However, we were able to spend a longer time, we got to know each other and we were able to have some petty fights. I don't think that both of them even had that on the phone! And yet here they are married at 11:00AM hundred hours.
She was crying when she hugged me. I was unable to roll my eyes because cameras were there and there were other people who witnessed the tying of knots.
Does love really endure time and space? Well in their case it did.
I wonder though how the in-laws are. Are they biatches? Will they be discriminating? Will they be power-trippers? Are they of good culture? Time will tell and these things have to be pondered upon...
However, so what if my sister got married today? So what if after 20 years my sister and her boyfriend met again and got married? Do I care or should I even bother in put a feeling about my sister's wedding to her boyfreind after 20 years?

There is this person who just came in the picture. Very "proactive".. some sort of from a different place.. Provincial for short. Have you all experienced your personal space is being invaded? Well, I'll tell you what, it is not a nice thing. You begin to lose whatever you felt was very important to you = space. Now this person was told to not do the things he does like holding the dangling muscles of your two ears, touching your tummy as if you are pregnant and rubbing your shoulders.
It made me feel as though my personal bubble was being burst a lot of times after I inflate another one! Grrrr was the feeling I had for almost a month. Thank goodness he was able to feel that I was shutting him off.
Now that he felt the heat and tension, I feel better that he is tip-toeing around me and that he spoke to our Sup about it. Another friend of mine who is close to him also talked to me about it that she felt it too and that she offered her services to amend the tension.
Oh well, there is only one thing I can saya bout it, NEVER ASSUME....

well well well...this is my first ever LJ...hhmmm i wondered how and why people do this...but here I am, doing it...oh well, expect bitching, secrets and blahs in this blog..

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